The risk of living unbothered.
I always feel burdened by the expectations of literal strangers, my family ( and they are the most chill people I am blessed to belong to) and every person to have lived on this earth.
Why do I care so much? I don’t know. I guess it is what everybody does- care about other people’s opinions, feel burdened to live a certain way because the cost of rebellion is too high.
Not because of people’s opinions, but of failure. Because when you go against the norm and fail- you only have yourself to blame and only you for comfort- or so you tell yourself.
So, you pretend to live out the norm- safely ensconced in the collective conscience of drudgery.
You start associating risks with failures.
You train yourself to avoid risks, rebellion and failures.
You learn to live inside the norm- your only reality and loathe any risk that threatens to disrupt it.
You learn to write as per the norm too- an impersonal, algo loving structure built for success.
What will you do?
Before you leave
I’m excited to release a couple of posts this week! First up, the grand finale of my 2024 Quarterly Book List. And for spooky season, I’ve got a horror story coming your way—a tribute to the delightfully campy vibes of Halloween and the Scream era.
I hope you will enjoy them.